What are some juicy questions?
- What's the last lie you told?
- Who was your very first crush?
- What's the best compliment you've ever received?
- What do you consider your best physical feature?
- What are the top three things that stress you out?
- What are the top three ways you deal with stress?
Basically, one person gets to ask the other person 21 questions in a row. When they are done, it's the other person's turn to ask. Most of the time, this game is played in person, but you can also play it while texting.
- What's Your Family Like? ...
- What's Your Favorite Childhood Memory? ...
- What's Your Favorite Song? ...
- Where Do You See Yourself in Five Years? ...
- Do You Want Children? ...
- If You Could Have One Superpower, What Would It Be? ...
- What Do You Enjoy Most About Your Job?
- What is your love language?
- What is your biggest turn-on?
- Major turn-offs?
- Do you like to make the first move?
- Do you think you're a good kisser?
- Who was your first crush?
- Thoughts on cuddling?
- How did your last relationship end?
Each player has to answer a set of 21 questions. To make things more interesting, the players can divide the questions and allocate points to each. The person who answers them all wins. If you gather more than two people to play, all the other players get to ask you a question from the list as per their wish.
- What do you think your younger self would think of our relationship?
- What have you learned about relationships from your parents?
- When was the last time you cried?
- Have your friendships taught you anything about romantic relationships?
- What does 'work-life balance' mean to you?
- What's your biggest turn off?
- What's the largest age gap between you and your sexual partners?
- Does size really matter?
- Who was your worst sexual partner and why?
- Have you ever faked an orgasm?
- Have you ever been caught in action?
- If you could have three wishes, what would they be?
- Who was your favorite cartoon character when you were a kid?
- What does spirituality mean to you?
- Do you believe in giving people second chances, and why?
- How would you describe your first crush?
- What are your favorite hobbies?
- Have you ever had romantic feelings for someone of the same sex?
- Have you ever had a one-night stand?
- How many sex toys do you own?
- Do you enjoy dirty talk?
- Have you ever hooked up with more than one person on the same night?
- Have you ever pursued a secret relationship?
...
- What is the perfect date?
- What do you love most about yourself?
- What do you like about me?
- What superpower do you wish you had?
- Do you like to flirt with guys?
What are 21 questions to ask a girl?
- What's the craziest or most out-of-character thing you've ever done?
- What's your favorite thing about this city?
- What is your biggest “pet peeve”?
- If you could relive one day from the past, which would it be and why?
- If you could have any talent in the world, what would it be?
- If you had a whole day where you could do anything you wanted, what would you do?
- What are you most proud of about yourself?
- What is your greatest accomplishment?
- What are you still hoping to accomplish?
- What do you want people to know about you?
- What do you need more of in your life?

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